“(The Best Part of) Breakin’ Up” is a classic 1964 hit by the iconic girl group, The Ronettes. Emerging from Spanish Harlem, New York City, The Ronettes comprised sisters Veronica (Ronnie) and Estelle Bennett, and their cousin Nedra Talley. Known for their distinctive beehive hairstyles, heavy eye makeup, and tight, soulful harmonies, they were a key part of Phil Spector’s “Wall of Sound” production style at Philles Records. While The Ronettes didn’t rack up a plethora of awards like some of their contemporaries, their influence on music is undeniable. They landed numerous hits on the Billboard charts, and were inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 2007, cementing their legacy as one of the most important girl groups of the 1960s.
“(The Best Part of) Breakin’ Up” is a deceptively upbeat anthem that cleverly subverts the typical heartbreak narrative. Instead of lamenting the end of a relationship, the song celebrates the newfound freedom and independence that comes with breaking up. The lyrics, delivered with Ronnie Spector’s signature soulful vocals, highlight the relief from arguments, controlling behavior, and the overall stress of a toxic relationship. The “best part” is not the breakup itself, but the escape from a bad situation and the opportunity for a fresh start.
The song resonated deeply with audiences upon its release, particularly young women who identified with the feeling of being trapped in unhealthy relationships. While some initially viewed the song as a lighthearted pop tune, its underlying message of empowerment and self-respect struck a chord with many. Even today, “(The Best Part of) Breakin’ Up” continues to be celebrated for its catchy melody, its groundbreaking take on the breakup song, and its enduring message of female liberation. It’s a timeless classic that perfectly captures the spirit of the 1960s girl group sound while offering a refreshing perspective on love and loss.
